The thing I love about the workouts I do is that there is always a skill to improve or a faster time and heavier weight to achieve. It feels more like a sport than working out. Double unders is a skill that took me a LONG time to get down, and I’ve finally gotten to the point where I feel pretty comfortable with them. And then you have a day like today, where you can barely string 5 together. The thing about double unders is they are incredibly mental, much like the rest of the movements. So, the fact that I was talking to myself negatively throughout the entire workout (“WHY do I suck so bad?” and “I HATE this workout.“) probably didn’t help.
It got me thinking about how much positive self-talk really does effect performance. In the workouts I do, a clock counts down from 10 before you begin. To me, it used to feel like it was counting down to Doomsday. I would use those 10 seconds to freak out, doubt myself and get really nervous. My thought process went something like this:
10…9…
“I really hope I can do all the reps with this weight…I’m not sure if I can.”
8…7…6…
“Should I drop the weight really quick? Oh great, I don’t have time…”
5…4…3…
“Ok I’m keeping this weight on, but I’m not sure I’ll be able to finish in the time cap.”
2…1…GO
“AHHHHH!!!”
Not the best way to go into a workout. Last month, I decided to use those 10 seconds to build myself up rather than freak out. Now my thoughts are more along the lines of: “I’m going to crush this workout.” and “I can do hard things.” and “Time to give it everything you’ve got.” Every time the workout would get really hard, and my brain would start playing its doubting mind game, I would repeat those mantras. I was surprised by how these little words drastically changed my performance and, of course, my attitude.
In a world where women are constantly apologizing for everything and downplaying our accomplishments, it feels strange to tell yourself “I’m freaking awesome.” But those 10 seconds are often the most empowering moments of my day. Of course, there are still days like today, where my mind won and got the the best of me, but I’ll be back on the empowerment train tomorrow.
Does anyone else do this in workouts or life in general? What mantras do you use?